2021.09.25 05:19 I-am-ok-5516 Parents (60+) won't let me (26f) stay over at my boyfriend's (26m)
We are South Asians. My boyfriend and I both truly love each other and are in it for the long term, this is the first time we're both really happy in our relationship. We've both met each other's parents and it's been great on both sides, however our parents have not met each other yet, mainly because of the Covid pandemic and we didn't want to have a gathering before our parents were fully vaccinated and before covid cases subsided.
Our families are from 2 different extremes: my parents are extremely conservative while my boyfriend's parents are really chill. For example, my parents are strictly against alcohol while my boyfriend's parents drink with their children at home (it's just how they socialize and it's nice). My parents are very much against eating pork for "moral reasons", while my boyfriend's parents enjoy eating pork. My parents dictate every move of mine while my boyfriend's parents trust that their children are responsible.
Growing up my parents are always worried about what anyone thinks of us (classic AP things) and everything has become a moral obligation for them. I have been very responsible all my life; I did great in school and uni, even got a masters. I have a great job, and I help out a lot at home financially. But for some reason they always made it a point to guilt trip when I hangout with my friends at night (the night outings are "frowned upon" because it's not respectful for a girl to be out at night), or when I wear a crop top and short skirt, etc.
I had to stay over at my boyfriend's parent's house a couple of times (he's also living with his parents at the moment while searching for his own place, but he's paying them rent) because his parents didn't want him to drive me back home after having drinks. They are always more than happy to have me overnight at their house and are also okay with us sleeping in the same room, because they trust in us and we are old enough to make our own decisions. Sadly my parents don't allow it at all because of what people might say, and that I'll lose my respect because it makes me look cheap. They also find it awkward that I'm staying over at their place before my parents have met my boyfriend's parents (they want us to be engaged first). And I'm only doing it because we're afraid of going out so much when Covid is still pretty serious in our country.
It's frustrating to be 26 and still having to seek approval to want to spend more time with someone I love. They also don't approve of me wanting to move out and live with my boyfriend because it's not our culture. I hate disappointing them too because it would make me a sinner or a failure in their eyes, which is the most uncomfortable thing to experience. How do I ever make them understand that I'm a responsible adult?
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2021.09.25 05:19 Serendipstyx it is currently cold and pouring
2021.09.25 05:19 0perationFail I need an Adept Sidearm next season.
I already know that GMs wont keep my attention long this season withe the current Adept weapons. I might farm the shotty a few times, but that's about it.
It's nothing like last season where there was really good loot that I didnt have yet. I kind of wish that instead of adding all those guns to prophecy that they would have added an additional set of Adepts to GMs this season. Especially because of how long this one is going to be...
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2021.09.25 05:19 GoodAsDad What if someone told you guys you you couldn't have what you wanted most in life?
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2021.09.25 05:19 SuccessfulBroccoli68 How do we feel about getting a Grey Theme?
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2021.09.25 05:19 Gambit6x Question: I’m continuing to learn the sport. What is the consensus on Mick? Is he top talent? How is he perceived?
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2021.09.25 05:19 princey12 Homeless man shot with arrow in Vancouver’s Downtown Eastside: police
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2021.09.25 05:19 VegusVenturi [Omega Constellation] Does anyone have any advice, info, or approximate value of this particular piece?
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2021.09.25 05:19 thekailuis Norton mechanic Garage - Brand & Logo
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2021.09.25 05:19 memedmelon Ice-T in a Kickback shirt
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2021.09.25 05:19 Emotional-Hat-7033 QUESTION THROAT
If I have bacteria on my tonsilities what will the doctor treat it with because I am sure I have that? Will I be able to eat better with certain medicine?
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2021.09.25 05:19 WhyAreYouGe Helicopter flying behind my house
I live near the lake moss area. Is there any news that could explain a helicopter flying in circles for about an hour?.
When I first moved to Charlotte in 2006 they had police helicopters out due to a criminal on the loose. Was wondering if this is the same thing. It's been an hour and it's still flying.
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